Learning To Curb My Helpful Side
Apr. 21st, 2006 07:25 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
...Is something I have to try and do. That and offering gifts I haven't made yet.
I seem to be offering slices of my time that in truth I don't actually have, at least not in abundance. Unless I take drastic measures and turn hermit for a week.
It's hard to admit but yes I am sometimes too helpful for my own good. I offer my services without thinking how much time I actually have. This is not to say I don't enjoy each and every thing I do, it's just that I forget how fast I get swamped.
To give you an idea of how bad I can be, I offered a drawing as a present three years ago. It has yet to be painted. The miniature that I offered for someone's birthday has been modeled but no paint has come near it. Clothes for a soft toy, designed but not made (and I've had it a year).
Add to all this that I have agreed to make a kilt and a website for schaffhausen. The first was a learning experience in itself. But it should now be known that should anyone else need a kilt, it's not that tricky to make and I can make them to any size and cheaper than buying a real one. (It will also be quicker now I know how) You just need to decide how valuable you think my time is. ;)
The website will also increase my knowledge of website building so I am happy to do it especially as it is a project I have a stake in. Or rather a beak.
But all this is on top of the innummerable projects I set myself - some that I have not touched in ages but really want to finish.
So I ask those that know me, seriously, Save me from myself! ;)
EDIT: Alternatively actually prodding me and giving me deadlines works wonders - These have benefited from that - Maelstrom and The Fallen.
I seem to be offering slices of my time that in truth I don't actually have, at least not in abundance. Unless I take drastic measures and turn hermit for a week.
It's hard to admit but yes I am sometimes too helpful for my own good. I offer my services without thinking how much time I actually have. This is not to say I don't enjoy each and every thing I do, it's just that I forget how fast I get swamped.
To give you an idea of how bad I can be, I offered a drawing as a present three years ago. It has yet to be painted. The miniature that I offered for someone's birthday has been modeled but no paint has come near it. Clothes for a soft toy, designed but not made (and I've had it a year).
Add to all this that I have agreed to make a kilt and a website for schaffhausen. The first was a learning experience in itself. But it should now be known that should anyone else need a kilt, it's not that tricky to make and I can make them to any size and cheaper than buying a real one. (It will also be quicker now I know how) You just need to decide how valuable you think my time is. ;)
The website will also increase my knowledge of website building so I am happy to do it especially as it is a project I have a stake in. Or rather a beak.
But all this is on top of the innummerable projects I set myself - some that I have not touched in ages but really want to finish.
So I ask those that know me, seriously, Save me from myself! ;)
EDIT: Alternatively actually prodding me and giving me deadlines works wonders - These have benefited from that - Maelstrom and The Fallen.
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Date: 2006-04-21 11:23 am (UTC)My prodding stick is ready to do work getting you in gear if you can do the same for me ;)